relationship. You haven’t been able to give enough time to each other and as a
result your relationship has hit rock bottom. However, there’s still a chance to
revive the charm and save your relationship. Here are a few things you must do.
1. Communicate: Talk to each other as much as possible, it is the most sensible
things to do in such situations. This will help sort out a lot of issues that you have
had in the past and will clear several misunderstandings as well. When you talk,
you let out a lot of frustration and ill-feeling that you have stored within. You
have avoided this kind of communication since you didn’t want things to take a
bad turn, however at this point, talking out your differences is one of the best
ways to make your relationship work.
2. Give time: Try to concentrate more on your relationship, invest time in
nurturing it. Try to shift focus from your professional life to your personal, come
back early from work so that you spend quality time with your partner, avoid
social gatherings where you need to go without your partner, etc. In fact, plan
things around your partner, so that you can spend more and more time with each
other. Time has the power to mend cracks, but you must invest enough time for
3. Start dating: Couples only date until the time they are chasing each other or
just before being together. Once, they know that they are secure within
themselves, they stop doing anything to make their relationship interesting. Start
dating again to revive the charm, plan luncheons and dinner dates at new places
around the city, go on surprise long drives once in a while while enjoying the
weather, gift each other small things, etc. Try to get monotony out of your
relationship and make it more exciting.
4. Listen: If you think talking out is very important to mend your ties, then
listening is equally important. Before putting across your point to your partner,
make sure you carefully listen to everything that your partner says. Do no jump
on conclusions without giving him/her a chance to explain. Patiently listening to
your partner might answer many questions that haunt your relationship from time
5. Get more intimate: In most couples, being less intimate is one of the most
important reasons that leads to a fallout. It is our busy schedules that usually
make us feel so exhausted that we do not have enough time and emotion to spare,
let alone being intimate.
If you’re already having s*x, try different positions and ask each other about the
experience, and this is one way you can bring back the charm in your
- Times of India
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