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7 Things You Can Do Rigth Now To Stop A Break Up

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It is possible to save a relationship even if you seem to be the only one who is
trying to fix the myth.
That’s because these 7 tips will make your partner ALSO want to stop the
breakup from happening, and the best part is, you can do these things 7 things
RIGHT NOW to save your relationship:
1,Suspend Your Emotions – When we are emotional we say rashy things,
make hasty decisions, and do things we later regret. The sooner you suspend
your emotions, the sooner you gain control and the sooner your partner will
calm down.
2, Talk Without Pointing Fingers – The breakup is happening, because you
two can’t ever have a
discussion without the blame and judgment games happening. Suspend your
criticisms, judgments, and comebacks and have a discussion that’s void of all
the negativity from your end.
3, ASK Your Partner What Is Going Wrong – The fights are happening,
because your partner feels they aren’t being heard; thus you can eliminate it by
simply asking them what they think is going wrong. Hear them out, and listen,
even when they criticize and judge you, because they simply just want you to
listen for a change.
4, Admit That You Need To Change – You’ve spent a lot of your time
denying that you need to change
by never admitting your mistakes, and by justifying your poor actions. Be
humble and recognize openly to your partner that you need to change and ask
for their input.
5, Remove The Relationship Talks – Right now both of you are
concentrating on everything that is
going wrong with the relationship and it puts a lot of stress and strain on both
of you, and on the
relationship. Take some space and don’t discuss the relationship, and instead
discuss each other
individually and your individual goals for instance.
6,Do A Check Up System – Give your partner a chance to tell you what to do,
and let them tell you how they want you to do it. THEN, create a check up system
wherein you check up with your partner to ensure that they are happy with your
progress and that things are going the way they want finally. Giving your
partner some control
here will help them feel like it’s a two way street, instead of just a one way,
wherein only YOU make
the decisions.
7, Tell Your Partner You Appreciate Them – He/she may feel like you
don’t appreciate them enough.
They may think you take them for granted, are not thankful, and simply don’t
know everything
that they sacrifice for you. Let them know that you appreciate them by telling
them how and why
you do, so that your partner can feel desired and appreciated again.
Have a blissful Sunday guys!!!

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Nice post

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