Dating is not a source of vexation or calamity. It will only
appear to be such if people date for wrong reason. Many
people have always considered dating as a source for
romantic entertainment for male and female. For others,
dating is a love affair, good dinner and goodbye kisses.
However, when carried out cautiously, dating is a
legitimate way for people of the opposite sex to know
each other as regard to future plans. And in most cases
this will have to do with making the right choice for a
life-time partner. This is so because, without dating
someone or having a courtship, you won't really have a
better mastery of him, what the person feels like or his
and bad moments.
If you are ready to start dating, they are many things to
consider before conclusion which am going to explain
below. But to be on the safe side, it's always good to at
least do it for a purpose and date the person for some
period of time.
The bloom of youth
Youths are in the vulnerable period of life termed the
bloom of youth. During this period, it is usual that they
may feel powerful surges of sexual desire. I see nothing
wrong with that as all adults have passed through it
and so it's weird for a young person to do so as well, but
therein lies a problem with teenage dating.
Until they are able to control these feelings, dating for
such youths can be very chancy. Yes it's very correct
that not all youths end up having sexual relations, but
some still get it the tough way with no way back.
Am I ready to date if prepared?
If you are someone who knows and can manage your
emotions then you can switch to another article but if
you are still struggling with your emotions then read
further to know what is required of you and also
understand how to be poised when with your date.
Learning to be poised around your date is completely
free and easy. The one and easiest approach of it is
nothing more than having many type of friends, old and
young, single and married, male and female. If you can
manage to acquire some friends of these types, you will
not only enjoy and share their experiences but you will
learn to be poised especially with those of the opposite
gender (your date).
Another step is by associating with marriage couples. In
this way you will learn a more realistic view of marriage
life so that later on you will be more prepared and ready
to date for a better purpose and this is so because
behind any successful dating there must be a purpose.
and another reason for this association is due to the fact
that most marriages if not all of them start by dating so
they can share this experience with you.
So based on all these illustrations above, you will see
that dating without having enough knowledge of it,
your purpose, your age, or to not please someone or get
to a social group will likely to result in just fun. Nothing
is bad to have fun. The problem is that, the risk of
dating for such reasons is just too high. If you are ready
to date with a mature view of life, then it is going to be
a great step to know more about your partner as well as
the reverse is true.